
Eenie-Meenie
Life is full of choices. Little choices: What will I eat? What will I play? Big choices: How will I act? Will I do what God says? Preschoolers need practice making little choices to prepare them for making bigger life choices later on - including the choice to follow Jesus. Plus, giving preschoolers choices conveys that you value their input and thoughts. So what kinds of choices can you give preschoolers?
Preschoolers can choose who to pray for, which activities to do, which songs to sing, where to sit, where to glue craft pieces, which colors of craft materials to use, and more.
Giving preschoolers choices may require more of your time, and some children may need guidance on how to choose activities, especially during free choice or open play. But extra time and efforts is worth it (and let's be honest, it's not that much extra) because you're helping kids learn that each choice they make has a result or consequence. Follow these tips so your preschooles' decision-making goes smoothly.
* Offer preschoolers choice only when choice is truly possible. If everyone's going outside, you probably can't realistically offer the choice of staying inside. But you can say, "We're going outside. Do you want to play on the swings or kick the ball?"
* Offer two choices-no more. Rather than asking, "Where do you want to sit?" ask, "would you like to sit here or there?" and point to the two options.
* Be flexible when kids change their mind. If a child chooses green paper and then decides blue, give him the blue. Unless the flip-flop concerns a big decision or it creates a problem, roll with it when kids change a decision. (After all, how many times do we change our mind when ordering from a menu or trying to pick out clothes?)
* Encourage kids to pray about big choices. Preschoolers can pray about a special project that they want to do or ways they can help others. Say, "Let's ask God to help us decide if we should collet clothers or food to give to other people." Giving kids choices within boundaries will help keep them safe while spurring their development. It's a simple way to nutre the faith of you preschoolers.
Gigi Schweikert